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Conflict Style
25 statements about how you act in a disagreement with your partner. You'll get your conflict style, a chart of five ways of handling a fight and ideas for arguing in a way that brings you closer afterward.
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This test is for fun and a good start to a conversation, not a psychological diagnosis.
Possible results
This is how the app describes the results. You will see yours after the last question.
Fiery Spirit
In a fight you go all in and say exactly what you mean. Arguments don't scare you. You have a point of view, you know how to defend it and you'd take a storm over pretending everything is fine. Your partner always knows where they stand, because you don't save anything for later. Your emotions rise fast and settle just as fast. You gain the most when you put that same energy into listening.
Bridge Builder
You're not looking for a winner, just a way out that works for you both. To you a fight isn't a duel, it's a shared problem to solve. You ask, you listen, you say what you need and you don't let go until you've reached the heart of it. Around you, your partner feels their view counts. Sometimes, though, they just don't have another hour of talking left in them.
Happy Medium
You quickly find a deal you can both live with. You don't like a fight that drags on forever. You offer a fair split: a little your way, a little mine, and case closed. Thanks to you, arguments rarely turn into trench warfare. Just check now and then that a quick deal isn't covering up something important neither of you said out loud.
Still Waters
When things heat up, you need quiet and distance. In a fight, your first move is to step back: you go quiet, leave the room and let the emotions settle. That means you rarely say something you'll regret, and plenty of small stuff blows over without a scene. To your partner, though, your silence can be a mystery, and it's easy to mistake it for not caring. Meanwhile, there's a whole lot going on inside you.
Peacekeeper
You make the first move to make up, because peace matters most to you. You can't stand friction between you. You give way easily, you're quick to reach out and you know how to put your partner's needs ahead of your own. That's a real gift: with you, fights rarely last long. But your needs matter just as much, and the ones that go unsaid tend to come back as quiet resentment.
How long does Conflict Style take?
About 4 minutes: 25 statements. Your result shows up right after the last one.
Is the test free?
Yes. You take it here for free, with no account. Your result stays only in your browser.
How do we compare results?
In the Liskove app, each of you takes the test on your own phone, and then you see your results side by side and what you share.
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