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Attachment Style
35 statements about how you feel in close relationships. You'll see where you land on a map with two axes, anxiety and avoidance, plus your attachment style: secure, anxious, avoidant or fearful-avoidant.
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This test is for fun and a good start to a conversation, not a psychological diagnosis.
Possible results
This is how the app describes the results. You will see yours after the last question.
Secure
Closeness doesn't scare you, and being alone doesn't paralyze you. You find it easy to trust, to ask for support and to let people get to know you. An argument doesn't feel like the end of the world, and the other person needing space doesn't send you into a panic. About half of adults have this style. It works like an anchor: it helps the other person feel safe, too.
Anxious
You love hard and need to know it goes both ways. Closeness matters a lot to you, so you're quick to notice signs that something is changing. A longer silence between texts or a cooler tone can set off an avalanche of thoughts. That's not a flaw. It's a sensitive radar that sometimes sounds the alarm too early. Predictability and clear signals help you.
Avoidant
You value independence, and too much closeness quickly overwhelms you. You do great on your own and don't like depending on anyone. When things get very close or very emotional, you feel the urge to pull back, get busy with something else and catch your breath. That doesn't mean you don't love: your sense of safety just rests on having space.
Fearful-avoidant
You long for closeness and fear it at the same time. Two forces live in your heart: one pulls you toward closeness, the other tells you to run when things get serious. That can be exhausting, because sometimes you need reassurance and sometimes distance. It often has roots in old hurts. The good news: attachment styles can change, and a safe relationship helps a lot.
How long does Attachment Style take?
About 6 minutes: 35 statements. Your result shows up right after the last one.
Is the test free?
Yes. You take it here for free, with no account. Your result stays only in your browser.
How do we compare results?
In the Liskove app, each of you takes the test on your own phone, and then you see your results side by side and what you share.
Compare your results in the app
In Liskove each of you takes the test on your own phone, and the app shows your results side by side, what you share and tips for the two of you.
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