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Long-distance questions for couples: 40 questions for calls and video
40 long-distance questions for couples, from the Question of the Day bank in Liskove: about your day, your dreams and your plans together. For a phone call, a video call or a message before sleep.
What three things would you take to a desert island?
To start with
- What three things would you take to a desert island?
- If you could turn into any animal for a day, which would you choose?
- If your relationship were a dish, what would it be?
- What's the name of your made-up island, and what's on it?
- What makes you smile most often during the day?
- What sound or smell feels like home to you?
- What does your perfect lazy morning look like?
- Which country's cuisine would you love to taste right where it comes from?
- What snack rescues every bad day for you?
- What instrument would you love to play at least one song on?
- What train ride, boat trip, or road trip would you love to take someday?
- What dream hobby is waiting for you to have some free time?
- What would you like to do together this coming weekend?
- What dish would you like to try together for the first time?
- What would you like to learn together with your person?
- What do you want to do before the end of this month?
- What around you brings you joy every day?
- What small win from this week deserves a celebration?
- What would you like to thank your person for today?
- What song or book lifted your mood lately?
Closer
- What do you want to experience at least once, even if it scares you a little?
- Which of your person's dreams would you like to help come true?
- What place would you love to show your person someday, and why that one?
- If you could start a brand new hobby tomorrow with guaranteed success, what would you pick?
- What's the title of the movie about your life, and who plays the lead?
- If animals could talk, which one would you talk to first?
- Which part of the day is hardest for you, and what makes it easier?
- How do you rest best: on the move, in quiet, or around people?
- What would you like to do together more often, even on an ordinary day?
- What memory do you want to make together on your next vacation?
- What do you want to try together for the first time this year?
- What adventure is still waiting for the two of you?
- Which moment together from the last few days are you quietly grateful for?
- What are you most grateful to this relationship for this month?
- Which quality of your person makes your life easier?
Deeper
- What would have to happen for your life to feel truly fulfilled?
- How would you like to show your person gratitude in a way that truly reaches them?
- What ordinary moment from the last few days turned out to really matter to you?
- What from this stage of your life do you want to take with you into the future?
- If you could send a letter to yourself from ten years ago, what would you write?
The questions come from the Question of the Day bank in the Liskove app. In the app each of you answers on your own phone, and you see your person’s answer only after yours.
How to make the talk work
- Set a regular time. One question a day at the same hour works better than a long call once a week.
- Write down your answers about the future. In a few months you will have something to compare.
- The camera is optional. Some questions sound better on the phone, in the dark, before sleep.
What do long-distance couples talk about?
What happened during the day, dreams and plans for your time together. A steady ritual helps, like one question a day. That is how the Question of the Day works in Liskove.
How do we keep phone calls from getting boring?
Instead of asking how things are, ask one specific question and follow up on a detail. Long-distance games like Who’s More Likely or Would You Rather work well too.
One question a day, just for you two
In Liskove a Question of the Day waits every day. You see your person’s answer only after you give yours, so nobody peeks and nobody answers for show.