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Questions to ask your girlfriend: 45 questions for a good talk
45 questions to ask your girlfriend, from the Question of the Day bank in Liskove. Light ones to start, closer ones for the evening and a few deeper ones that keep the talk going. They work for a girlfriend, a wife and anyone close.
What totally unnecessary gadget would you love to own just for fun?
To start with
- What totally unnecessary gadget would you love to own just for fun?
- What advice from someone older do you still remember?
- How would you describe a good friendship in three words?
- What word or inside joke between the two of you always cracks you up?
- Which cartoon character is the most like you?
- What kind of welcome after a long day makes you happiest?
- Tea made without asking or a goodnight note: which melts your heart more?
- What invention that doesn't exist yet would make your life easier?
- Which game or bit of fun together makes you happiest to look back on?
- What weather do you order for tomorrow if it is entirely up to you?
- What do you remember about your first long conversation?
- Which vacation memory of the two of you comes back to you most often?
- Which household chore do you actually not mind?
- What view would you love to see in person someday?
- What feels more like you: a detailed plan or spontaneity?
- Which place in the world do you want to see first?
- Coffee or tea? And exactly how do you take it?
- What movie could you watch over and over?
- What does your perfect day together look like a year from now?
- What new tradition would you like to start together?
- What movie or show do you want to watch together soon?
- What everyday object makes every day easier for you?
- Who cheered you up recently, and how?
- What weather or view are you quietly grateful for today?
- How do you like to fall asleep: in silence, with music, or with a show on?
Closer
- What does your dream year off from everyday life look like?
- What do you respect most about your person?
- Who makes you feel the safest, and when?
- What words would you like to hear more often?
- What does your dream home look like, room by room?
- Which recent dream do you remember best?
- What do you like doing most on rainy days?
- What movie from your childhood do you still love, even though you see it differently now?
- What surprises you most when you look back at your early days together?
- What does a high-energy day look like for you, and what about a low-battery day?
- When is it hardest for you to keep from laughing?
- Which daily habit of your person would you like to borrow?
- What would you like to experience together before another year goes by?
- What do you want to keep in your relationship no matter what changes?
- What can you give yourself credit for today?
Deeper
- Which moment together reminds you how much good you have in your life?
- What do you think makes someone a good person?
- Which moment in your story taught you the most about trust?
- When does a joke help you say something that's hard to say directly?
- What do you hope people will say about you many years from now?
The questions come from the Question of the Day bank in the Liskove app. In the app each of you answers on your own phone, and you see your person’s answer only after yours.
How to make the talk work
- Ask out of curiosity, not from a checklist. One good question with a follow-up beats ten quick ones.
- Answer your own questions too. A conversation is an exchange, not an interview.
- Remember the answer and come back to it in a few days. It is the best proof you listen.
What should I ask my girlfriend to keep the conversation going?
Her opinions, memories and plans: open questions that can’t be answered in one word. This page has questions like that, from light to deep.
What questions should I ask on a first date?
Light and interesting ones, like favourite places, small pleasures and dreams. You will find more in the First Dates set and in our first date ideas.
One question a day, just for you two
In Liskove a Question of the Day waits every day. You see your person’s answer only after you give yours, so nobody peeks and nobody answers for show.